Speeches given by members of the armed forces should reflect what the forces mean in their lives. Whether you are retiring yourself or addressing a squadron pride in the flag should be an integral part of the speech.

What to include:

• The correct protocol. Find out how honored guests should be address so you'll get your speech off on the right note
• Speak of shared experiences. Even five star generals had to go on route marches once.
• Pay tribute to those who have helped and influenced you.
• Mention the camaraderie of the forces because everyone will relate to that.
• Add a bit of humour because everyone likes to laugh.
• Be patriotic in your comments. It's a matter of pride to serve your country.

What not to say:

• Don't be negative about life in the forces.e
• Don't go on for ever. A good speech is about content not length.

How to End:

• End your speech on a motivational note or, if applicable, with a loyal toast.