The groom's speech should be light-hearted yet sincere. It should, after all, come from the heart. The opening of the groom?s speech should grab the attention of the audience.

What to include:

• An opening that will capture the attention of the audience.
• An explanation of your relationship with the best man and a story or incident about that relationship.
• You ought to thank both sets of parents for their care and love.
• You should praise your bride, her beauty and say what she means to him
• You should thank your guests for their presence and (if applicable) their gifts
• (If applicable) You should mention the trouble your clergyman/woman took to make your day special

What not to say:

• Never be blue or smutty or offensive
• Do not mention previous partners
• Anything that would embarrass a member of the wedding party or a guest e.g. alcoholism or drug taking.

How to End:

• You should end with a gracious toast to the bridesmaids.